Secret to Attracting The Opposite Sex

Human Sex Pheromones are natural chemical scents the body produces in order to attract others. Animal Sex Pheromones are well documented in the animal kingdom as the force that controls all social behavior, including mating.

Scientists are now finding that human behavior is also heavily influenced by Human Sex Pheromones, the ultimate invisible social magnets.

There is no doubt that pheromones in human body have a very important role in mate attraction. Perfume manufacturers constantly attempt to create a scent that can make anyone irresistible. While there is really no such thing as a "secret love potion", pheromone oils and colognes are used by many people - singles who want to attract women or men, and couples who want to add some spice to their relationship.

Some products are scented while some are unscented. Scented pheronmone oils and colognes appeal mostly to the younger generation while unscented oils are more acceptable to people in the older age group who prefer to attract the opposite sex in a more subtle manner.

The Effects of Male Sexual Dysfunction

Erectile Dysfunction (ED) is THE most common sexual disorder to afflict men in the world today. Erectile Dysfunction can strike at any age or stage in your life and is probably the single most demoralizing factor in a man’s life. Men in this condition usually withdraw themselves from relationships.

Surveys have shown that 2 in 6 men suffer from this condition. A further depressing fact is that ONLY 1 in 15 men actually seeks treatment. This eventually leads to an environment filled with unhappy and depressed men. Are you among these men? If you are among the men who suffer from this condition, then act fast before its too late! You need to trust someone, speak up and take positive action for your self.

Erectile Dysfunction is the condition in which a man is not able to maintain an erection sufficient enough for sexual activity. During the past few years, there has been an alarming increase in the number of men with this condition. While stress and depression can lead to Erectile Dysfunction, doctors have listed the following causes as the major reasons for this condition:

• Reduced blood flow or even damage to the penile nerves
• Hormonal imbalance – Reduced levels of testosterone
• Medications and drugs– medicines used for heart problems, high blood pressure and anti-depressants. Alcohol and illicit drugs also play havoc with the nervous and vascular systems when used over a long period.
• Psychological – Depression, anxiety and stress

Do You Suffer from Female Sexual Disorder?

Women of all ages encounter periods of low libido at some or the other point in their lives. Most of the time, it is accompanied by vaginal dryness. This is referred to as Female Sexual Dysfunction or simply FSD.


If you suffer from FSD, you would not have an interest in sexual activity and even feel itching and burning sensations of the vaginal lining. You cannot carry out your daily activities comfortably. This condition becomes very agonizing as the vaginal skin tightens with increasing dryness. You cannot get pleasure from sexual intercourse as it becomes painful. At times it may be followed by slight bleeding.

Causes of FSD

• Psychological causes: Anxiety, mood swings and anger are linked to diminished
• sexual libido in women
• High blood pressure
• Thyroid problems
• Obesity
• Menopause
• Multiple sclerosis
• Smoking and alcoholism

Latest surveys also point toward the usage of antidepressants as a major factor to bringing about FSD.

Rethink The Way To Solve Your Relationship Problem

Communication is the life's blood of a marriage. Communication is the vehicle by which people in a relationship are able to communicate their love, commitment and affection to each other. It is the cornerstone of effective problem solving on many relationship issues.


Without appropriate communication, relationships struggle to maintain the affection, the connection, and the sense of belonging and acceptance that are so important to all individuals.

With around half of all marriages ending in divorce, it is especially important to take steps to maintain the individual and family benefits of a marriage. A pro-active stance in maintaining the good will, good feelings, and individual happiness of partners goes a long way toward keeping marital stability.

Only a marriage that is satisfying to both partners is more stable. If one partner is not satisfied with the marriage, it is vulnerable and prone to disintegration when serious issues arises.

One of the major causes of divorce is conflict and ineffective communication/problem solving. Another is infidelity. Both of these problem areas for couples can be fixed or prevented.

Many couples believe that they have good communication, yet find themselves falling short of their own expectations when the conversation gets heated. Sometimes couples believe that they communicate well, when in fact, they spend very little time together, and even less, actually interacting with each other.

Often one partner will want and need more interaction and communication time while the other needs less, which puts their needs in conflict. This is a relationship issue that often finds its way into discussions that are seemingly unrelated. So, instead of talking about not feeling loved enough, feeling taken for granted, or feeling unimportant, a couple will end up arguing about taking out the trash. To one person, the issue is "taking out the trash". To the other, the meaning of repeatedly asking someone to take out the trash, means "s/he doesn't love me" or "I'm not important".

Many positive relationship outcomes can occur when couples identify that they do need more time together, with just the two of them, where they are not being distracted by television, phone calls, the kids, the job, or others, and they make time for this togetherness.

Commitment helps a marriage weather the many changes that it goes through over time. Change leads to
stress. Individual partners experience shared stressors and individual stressors. Couples can use the relationship as a strength to deal with shared and individual stressors, or they can individually problem solve and try to sell their individual solutions to each other, thereby setting themselves up for more conflict and more stress. For couples to be able to assist each other with stress, there must be effective communication.

There are many ways to learn to effectively communicate. Couples counseling, marital enrichment programs, and structured or semi-structured communication exercises are all possibilities.

Couples counseling can teach you to identify when you are trying to problem solve on different levels and how to get on the same page. Couple's Feelings Meetings and The Honey Jar, a couple's conversation starter, are examples of helpful communication exercises.

If you are a spouse or a couple trying to recover the positive feelings you once had in your relationship, take action. Don't sit around hoping and waiting for something to change. Change is inevitable, but it may not be the type of change you are hoping for.